Name It to Tame It: Stress Scale (Middle School)

Social Emotional Learning — Do Now + Grounding Practice

November 7, 2025


🕓 Do Now: How Stressed Are You Today?

Before we jump into anything else, take a moment to check in with yourself.

Circle or mark where you are on the Stress Scale:

😌🙂😐😣😫
CalmOkayUnsureOverwhelmedStressed Out

Now write:

  • What’s one thing that’s making you feel this way?
    ✏️ _________________________________________
  • What’s one thing that’s helping you right now?
    ✏️ _________________________________________

💬 Remember: Everyone feels stress sometimes. The goal isn’t to erase it — it’s to manage it.


🌬️ Name It to Tame It: Why Labeling Helps

When we name our feelings (like “I feel tense” or “I feel anxious”), we’re giving our brain a chance to calm down and take control again.
Science shows that labeling emotions helps the thinking part of our brain (the prefrontal cortex) take charge — and helps the emotional part (the amygdala) chill out.

🧩 So, when stress builds up, don’t ignore it — name it.

Example:

“I’m not just mad — I’m actually stressed because I have two tests today.”

That one sentence helps your brain start finding solutions instead of spiraling.


Try These Two Grounding Techniques This Week

🌳 1. 5-4-3-2-1 Grounding Exercise

When you feel your stress rising, try this slow check-in:

  • 👀 5 things you can see
  • 4 things you can touch
  • 👂 3 things you can hear
  • 👃 2 things you can smell
  • 👅 1 thing you can taste

🧘‍♀️ This helps your brain focus on the present instead of the panic.


🫁 2. Square Breathing

Breathe in rhythm with a mental square:

1️⃣ Inhale for 4 seconds
2️⃣ Hold for 4 seconds
3️⃣ Exhale for 4 seconds
4️⃣ Hold again for 4 seconds

🔁 Repeat 3–5 times.
You can trace a real square with your finger or imagine one in your mind.


✨ Reflect & Reset

  • What technique helped you most this week?
    ✏️ ___________________________________________
  • How did naming your stress change how you felt?
    ✏️ ___________________________________________

Remember: Stress is a signal — not a stop sign. When you name it, breathe through it, and ground yourself, you take back your power.

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